Just Be Held

Everyone has experienced some form of suffering.

Whether it be losing a loved one, a sick family member, in debt, lost your job, or you’re just plain lost and have no idea where to begin again, suffering comes in many shapes and forms.

I’ve been in nearly every situation I listed above, and every single one of them is miserable. I would cry, sit and worry, overthink until I sometimes felt ill. Of course, I knew doing these things wouldn’t solve my problems or make anything better, but my mind didn’t listen to sensible musings. I did everything wrong.

One particular instance takes center stage in my mind.

At the beginning of last year, I purchased a used car. I was in desperate need of transportation for work and only had a minuscule budget to work with. So, I went to a little car lot owned by a preacher and picked out what seemed to be a nice car. The test drive went smooth, everything seeming to function in good working quality. Finally, I thought I’d found a break.

And for awhile I did.

Until things went south.

Everything under the sun went wrong. Ball joints, tie rods, battery, compressors, belts, lights, tires, wheel bearings, motor mounts… the list grew and grew, and so did the cost. Not only was I having to make a car payment, I was also making two extra payments on loans that I had to take out in order to fix everything that was going wrong. The bills kept piling up, and up, and up until there seemed to be a mountain of them towering over me. I felt, in a sense, like I was being consumed by debt.

Of course I was praying about my situation. But, it seemed that God wasn’t answering me. Why? Why was He ignoring me in a time that I needed Him so? He said pray for relief and for our burdens to be taken from us, yet it felt as if He had abandoned me in my time of despair. Had I done something wrong that I didn’t remember, or was this a lesson only He knew I needed?

I realized, as of recently, that it was indeed the latter.

A song by one of my favorite bands, Casting Crowns, came on one day on my way to work. Though I had heard the song before, the words hit home like they never had before. God was finally speaking to me, and I needed to hear what He was saying.


And when you’re tired of fighting

Chained by your control

There’s freedom in surrender

Lay it down and let it go

So when you’re on your knees and answers seem so far away

You’re not alone, stop holding on, and just be held

Your worlds not falling apart, it’s falling into place

I’m on the throne, stop holding on and just be held

Just be held


These lyrics made me see the lesson.

Sure, I was praying to God, but was I really trusting Him ? Had I really given Him my struggles and accepted the fact that He could and would handle everything? When I thought about it, I realized that I hadn’t really done that. I was merely begging for my requests to be met while not truly believing He would make my troubles come to pass.

You see, I had been praying. I had been praying for help, and peace, and strength to endure. But, in my frantic prayers, I had forgotten an important verse spoken by Jesus Himself:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Come to me, He says. I wasn’t coming to Him at all. I had just thrown my requests at His listening ear and kept on worrying to no avail. How ashamed that made me. I should have believed without a single doubt that He would deliver me from such trials. I should have said, “Lord, I trust Your will. Though I don’t see You with me, I know You are here and You know more than I do. For Your thoughts are far above my thoughts.”

But I didn’t.

Instead, I whined and worried and did everything I could think of to help my situation, when really, all I should have been doing was trusting God to do what He’s promised us all He would do.

Take our burdens away.

I decided that I wouldn’t have such a shallow faith any longer. From then on I would fully and completely trust the Lord with my struggles, knowing that He would, in due time, answer me according to His perfect will. No longer than I started doing just as He asked, did my situation appear to change. It didn’t happen instantaneously of course, but I did see the changes start.

I got a raise at my job, in another month both of my loans will be gone, and I am now the proud owner of a new Chevy Spark. Yes! No more car parts! I cannot possibly begin to explain the relief this gives me. Of course, if I’d have just let go and let God do what God does best, I probably would never have known these struggles.

So, friends, whatever your situation, whatever your trails are in this moment, I pray you take the time to truly come to Jesus and allow Him to take your burdens. The tunnel may seem dark and endless now, but there is a brilliant light at the end if we keep the faith and seek Him. Despite our prideful nature, we cannot face all things on our own. Let go of stubbornness and weak faith, and renew yourself in His loving presence.

Sometimes the hardest thing we can let ourselves do is to just be still and let Him hold us. Let Him hold you, friends. I know for a fact that He wants nothing more than to do just that!




“For I, the Lord your God, will hold your right hand, saying to you, ‘Fear not, I will help you.” –Isaiah 41:13


“Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” -1 Peter 5:6-7


“We should try our best to pour our all the burdens in our spirit by prayer until all of them have left us.” –Watchman Nee



19 thoughts on “Just Be Held

  1. A beautiful testimony to God’s loving grace. Have you ever noticed in the New Testament how Jesus is always touching people, people who haven’t been touched with kindness and love? We couldn’t make up a God like him.

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  2. Fredrick O. Stanley

    Tiffany, WOW! I just read this post, the first of your writings for me, and God spoke through the song lyrics. More importantly, the Lord spoke through His Word– particularly Isaiah 41:13. That’s one that reflects intimacy between God and me. He placed that scripture in my heart as I moved from Chicago to Southern California last year.

    May He continue to bless you RICHLY/IMMENSELY indeed, according Ephesians 3:20. God Bless you!!! Keep waiting and just hold on.

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  3. Saarah Na'Allah

    Your words were spoken so eloquently. You did a FANTASTIC job. I thank you for this beautiful message. It reinforces the intrinsic need we have to let go give God full control. Until then can we have peace.

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  4. It’s difficult for most of us to let go of control and completely surrender to the Spirit of God. Yet, when we do, we open ourselves to the filling up of love, grace, compassion, wisdom, peace and wonderful blessings. And the fight is finally over. 🙂

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  5. Thank you, Tiffany, for your story of faith-growth and the wise words: “renew yourself in His loving presence.” You are right: sometimes that’s a hard thing to do, but the smallest of efforts to comply reaps great reward. I’ve written that quote on a slip of paper, to keep nearby. (Every now and then I need a jump start!) Thank you also for becoming a follower of my blog, From the Inside Out. I pray you’ll find the posts meaningful.

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  6. I spent many years worrying when I should have been trusting. I think Joyce Meyer helped me the most in learning how to let go and trust. I love what she said one time, “Trust that God is working.” That’s what I do now and the peace of mind is incredible. It is wonderful you learned this when you are so young. It is also wonderful you share your walk with God online.

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  7. Amazing!!!! I think more than anything I was meant to read this today at this moment because all seems so lost and so confused. But, I must let go and let God so what he does. BE GOD. It is hard and difficult but I kow it must be done. Thank you for your testimony.

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